So, you have found the right BBW on a dating website and now you are thinking of going on a date with her. Obviously, you are a bit nervous since this is the first time you are going out with a BBW. But you don’t have to be nervous as BBWs are no different from other women. However, you need to be careful and shouldn’t touch sensitive issues when talking to her. Here are some tips for a successful date.
Be a Gentleman
A gentleman is a gentleman, after all. All women like men who behave well. Your date will appreciate it greatly if you be courteous. For instance, you should pull a chair for her at the restaurant. In the same way, opening the door for her is also part of proper etiquette and behavior.
Things You Should Not Discuss
On your first date with your woman, make sure you know what to say and what not to say. Most men make the mistake of asking a BBW about their weight, gym, size and fitness habits.
However, if she talks about these topics, you can add some positive comments. But you should never start these topics no matter what. Besides, you shouldn’t talk about your own weight either as it may get interpreted wrongly and she may get uncomfortable or upset.
Don’t Look at Other Girls
As a general rule, don’t talk about skinny girls or women when you are with your cougar on a date. As a matter of fact, some BBWs are more sensitive, especially when they are around skinny girls.
BBWs know that skinny girls are liked by most men. Therefore, you shouldn’t make the mistake of looking at other skinny girls while you are talking to your date. In fact, they will take it as an insult. So, never make this mistake or you may lose your date forever.
Choose The Right Place To Enjoy a Meal With Her
If your date allows you to choose a place for a date, what would you do? Well, you should make this choice after a lot of thinking. Here you need to keep one thing in mind: BBWs tend to be self-conscious. So, they won’t be relaxed or comfortable at a beach full of skinny girls.
In the same way, you shouldn’t take your date to a small place with a lot of people. Moreover, make sure the seats are big enough and comfortable. Activities like cycling or hiking are not good for your first date. Once you understand your date a bit more, you will be able to know the activities she would like to be engaged in. This will help you have better dates in the future.
Take Her to Your Home
You should care about her. And one way of doing so is to introduce her to your family and some good friends. The worst thing that you can do is make her feel like you are ashamed of dating an older woman. If you take her to your home, she will be more confident and she will love you more.
Be Open to Her
As far as talking to your big beautiful woman goes, you should be open to her. You don’t have to be offensive, nosy, or pushy. As a matter of fact, you should talk to her about things that she loves doing. You should also ask her about things that she wants to talk about.
So, these are some tips that can help you have a great date with your BBW. Hopefully, you will be able to avoid these terrible mistakes down the road.